30 Things I've Learned: #22

-Have things no one can take from you

Memories

Photographs

Tattoos

Convictions

Stories

Putting my things in storage has been one of the most valuable lessons I've ever (inadvertently) given myself. Packing away my stuff and being okay on my own, with who I am. 

I get a lot of compliments on my tattoos - I have 9.  All of them I got with someone important, nearly all have a double meaning. I've gotten one in each city I've lived in.  I refer to my tattoo's as my "living scrapbook". I don't need my phone or photos or the person. I can look down and smile. Each one is deeply personal.  

I asked a girl at work what she wants to do when she graduates from college, she said "I don't know, just make a lot of money". I replied, "be more interesting than that".  She looked perplexed.  I'm hopeful someday she'll see this as sound advice.  

Have things no one can take from you. Stuff is meant to be lived with. Life is meant to be lived.